What kind of life you want to live for the rest of your life?
Life with scheduled routines.
7am Wake up..perhaps earlier..
7:15am Brush teeth.
7:20am Take bath.
7:45 am Change clothes.
8am Leave house to office.
8:30am Reach office. Take breakfast. Start work.
12:30pm Lunch.
13:30pm Continue work.
17:30pm Go home..stuck in the traffic jam for hrs.
19:00pm Reach home..rest a while. For those with kids, play with the kids. For ladies, prepare dinner. For those who are lucky enough, dinner is already served.
19:30pm Take bath. For ladies, probably still continue preparing dinner.
20pm Take dinner.
20:30pm Watch tv or educate the kids or continue work from home..who knows..
22:00pm Sleeping time.
This is a day routine and continue from Mon to Fri.
During working hours, you will probably get all this shit:
- Scolded by boss or managers for nth/small mistake.
- Back stab/betray by colleagues,
- Tons of workloads, all urgent..
When shopping, also "save save" spend.
Some even not willing to spend for food costs rm10..I know this..hehe..
Or you want this:
Mon, Tues, Wed,..., Sun
Wake up at 10 or 11 plus. Brush teeth. Take bath. Put on clothes..mmm..what should I wear to accesorize my attire with....For ladies, Prada or Gucci handbag..For guys, Timbaland or Nike shoes?..
Breaklunch with wife and friends..San Francisco Steak House or TGI Fridays?
Afternoon..Shopping at KLCC..bought a new pair of Tag Heuer watch for yourself and wife.
Tea time at Shangri La hotel..
Dinner with family at Hilton Hotel..wife hinted long time no relaxation. You direct suggested "ok, tmr we go to Maldives island.."
Then that nite straight book air ticket..first class somemore...
The next day, off you go..enjoy your honeymoon/holiday whateva you want to name it.. for a wk or 2 or even mths..
Well, everyone wants relaxing days ahead.
Unless those who just want to live a normal and average life.
How many ppl willing to work hard for the 2nd option lifestyle?
Even if they are willing to work hard for it, are their ways moving towards their goals correct?
Some ppl may say "I just want to be average. Live average life. Do average work. Earn average living.".
There's nothing wrong being average.
But, if a person is always doing stuff in average range, how can he/she know that he/she can do better than average?
Has anybody try doing sth out of average?
Everyone in this world is equal in GOD's eyes.
When you look at ppl who are very successful, who live the 2nd option lifestyle I mentioned above, you will often say "He is more intelligent than I do, tats y he can do it!"
You're wrong.
How do you know you can't?
How do you know you don't have the ability and strength to do it?
Have you ever tried?
How many times you try to move fwd?
Failed? Got rejected?
How do you see the rejection you face?
How fast, after you got rejected or failed, stand up and move fwd again?
Have you even try to stand up and move fwd?
Before I read a book..Reject Me I Love It! by John Fuhrman..
Everytime I failed an interview, I will moan a lot to myself and my hubby.
I even cried and think that I am not good enough.
Very very upset.
My hubby got so frustrated sometimes, but he still persuade me to not give up by giving me all sorts of encouragement.
After I read few chapters of Reject Me I Love It! by John Fuhrman..
My thinking changed.
I begin to understand that rejections are good and beneficial to me.
With rejections, I can stand up again after failed interviews..corrected myself..the way I should answer qs, the way I behave in front of interviewer..
I learnt.
I experienced.
I grow.
Now I will be joining Ogilvy
Before I read a book..Reject Me I Love It! by John Fuhrman..
I always think that I'm not good in sales.
I dont have the skills to sales.
I know I can't take it if I got rejected in promoting products, this is similar to the case which I got rejected from interviewer.
I didnt even try, I have already given myself -ve thoughts and discouragement.
Thats y I am always in the option 1 lifestyle, even till now.
After I read few chapters of Reject Me I Love It! by John Fuhrman..
I understand that rejections are beneficial as rejections let you learn, experience and grow.
I understand that I shouldn't have give -ve thoughts for myself b4 I start to do sth.
I understand that self-rejection (there's a list of self-rejections if u read by Reject Me I Love It!John Fuhrman) kills..
I understand that we have to live our life full of possibilities and +ve thoughts.
I understand that we must have a dream, a goal in our life which is able to make us move towards it.
My Darling and I now working on our AMWAY biz.
We just started.
It may take a long while b4 we can reach higher levels.
But with our goals of settling house loan within 8 yrs and giving ourselves and our children a good lives ahead, we are willing to go through rejections.
Ppl rejected me when I mentioned the word AMWAY.
If I havent come across John Fuhrman's book, I will quit easily.
Now, when I received rejections, I will go ahead with other potential users.
I will continue reading this book.
I will read this book again after finish.
If anyone of you come across this book, please get a copy and read.
My personal opinion is..John Fuhrman gives me the confidence and strength to move fwd.
**Ref: Reject Me I Love It! by John Fuhrman
--> Recommended book for ppl who are afraid of rejections but want to move fwd.
~Jerrin~
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